In this video, we learn how to defend yourself at a party. This will help if someone comes up to you and pins you against a wall while at a party or gathering. If someone comes up and puts their hands on you, tell them "no" and grab onto their shoulders. Then, kick them in their private area and run away after you push them away. Do this in one swift movement and attract the attention of those around you. Make sure you are very mean and loud so that person and everyone around you knows that this person is invading your space and is not welcomed.